I know it has been forever since I last put a post up. It really is amazing how fast the time goes by. I keep thinking, I will do it tomorrow and then all of the sudden it is 3 months later. It is a real reminder to me that the most important things need to be done in the moment because another tomorrow often goes by. I especially need that reminder when it comes to my two sweet girls. I also think, tomorrow won't be so busy and I will sit down and have a tea party with Kayt and play doll house with Ella. It still hasn't happened for awhile.
I am all alone in my little apartment right now, on the opposite of the continent from my babies and it has given me A LOT of quiet time to think. It doesn't take much to remind me of how much I love being a mom and having Kayt and Ella around me each day. Almost to fault sometimes. I am the queen of mom guilt. However, it is that guilt that makes me put my work away, ignore the messy house and unfolded laundry and take the little moments with them. Whenever I am feeling like I don't have time I am reminded of President Monson's message awhile ago about how quickly the time goes by when your little ones are little and just want to be with you.
How lucky I am to have two beautiful girls who love me and want to play with me....and a husband that makes it so I can stay home.
So here is my New Years Resolution...
Spend time with my girls more often. Time where I am really engaged with them, not just working around them and half listening to conversations. I think this time can spent more than just playing, it can be working, drawing, coloring, shopping, cooking etc. But just being with them all the way, not just half there while my mind is focused on other things.
Wish me luck on this one. I just feel like time is slipping away. I am sure you all feel it too. It also seems like counsel from this last conference was focused on worrying about the things that matter most. So here I go into 2011. My attempt at letting the unimportant fall out of my life thus making room for what really matters.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
List from the last 3 months
This is a personal list of what I need to catch up on and little summary of each event. Feel free to read.
Easter:
Kent and Sue and there family came for Easter and to see the city. Their site seeing days went so smoothly. I was very happy, seeing as it was the first trip I had actually planned for someone.
We took the girls to a local egg hunt at Fairfax high school. The weather was perfect. It was the first year the event was held and so the crowds were minimal. Thank goodness. I doubt next year will be so pleasant.
Easter day was wonderful. We listened to conference and held the annual egg roll contest. Always a joy.
May:
Sarah's Visit. Sarah came to visit me for week after she graduated high school. It was fantastic. A good friend of mine watched my girls while she and I went into the city all by ourselves. We were able to cover a lot of ground. By the time the day ended we had both realized we hadn't eaten anything all day.
A few exciting moments:
Taking our own personal tour of the Capitol. I have been a very disappointed by the tours you get of the US capitol now. Since, I used to give tours there, I know my way around pretty good. So...instead of exiting the building when the tour was over we just meandered through a few more areas of the capitol, pretending to be part of different groups along the way. I was never able to get us all the way down to the Halls of the Senate but we did see the old Supreme Court chambers and the Old Senate chambers. Sarah was freaking out but I think she appreciated a more in depth tour!
We also went up to Ocean City, MD. Our friends Cody and Skye live up there. We went to the beach, which was very fun and hung out that evening with them. It was so great to see them and also see the Atlantic Ocean.
Finally, the night before we were all packing up to go back to Idaho, Sarah and I went out to see all of the monuments. We left about 11 pm and didn't get back until 1:30. It was the perfect time to go and see them. There was nobody there, only us and the guards and maybe one or two others. We were really able to feel the spirit of the monument. I know that sounds funny, but if you are able to go when there isn't many people, there is really a reverence to them.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip!
Trip home to Idaho;
I believe, blogged about this one already
4th of July
We decided to brave the crowds and go and see the fireworks on the Mall. We sat right on the lawn of Lincoln Memorial. It was super fun. The firework display was awesome. Getting home was not so awesome but we made it.
Birthday
Scott went all out for my birthday this year. It is the only one I have ever had away from family so he felt h was justified in making it awesome. And... he did. I had all of my favorite food and a chocolate ice cream cake from Cold Stone to top it all off. We had our friends over that night for some great Mediterranean food from our favorite spot. He took most of the day off to just hang out with me and girls. It was just a fantastic day. I don't know that I have ever been so spoiled.
My mom comes to town
My mom came out to visit in August as well. I was involved in Girls Camp so she came to watch my girls for me. She came out a little early so we could spend some time before I left. It was so fun to have her here. We went downtown one day and say the Natural History museum and the art gallery and hung out around our favorite fountain in D.C. We also went to a farmer's market at the department of agriculture building. It was just so fun to have her here, all to ourselves. My mom is my best friend and it had been awhile since we were able to just hang out. The time of her visit was also a tender mercy. She was able to be here to help us as we worked through some health troubles that came up during girls camp as well.
Grandpa Smith's Passing
Scott's Grandpa Smith passed away in September after a long battle with Cancer. Scott's parents were kind enough to fly us all home for the funeral. It was so nice to be back on the farm and with the family. There was so much love in Grandma and Grandpa's little front room as everyone gathered there to just talk and be together. Everyone told different funny stories about grandpa and family memories they all had. Scott and Brad saddled up the horse and all the little kids went for a ride. The only thing missing physically was grandpa, but we all knew he was there.
I haven't had anybody close to me die since I was pretty young (about 13 or 14). I had a really hard time with the idea of the viewing at first. But to see him looking so at peace was comforting. The experience really helped my testimony grow. Life isn't over once we die. And we will see our loved ones again.
Freedom's Run Half Marathon
Bucket List Trip to Maine
Scott and I decided to bite the bullet and take our first trip together. Scott planned a week long trip for us to Maine. I have a list of all the things I want to do before I die. (the list keeps growing) One thing on that list was to eat a lobster in Maine. We did that much more.
Day 1:
Drove to Boston. It is a super cool city. We stayed in a hotel right near where the Boston Massacre happened and the freedom trail. So we went and saw Paul Revers's house, the church he lit the lanterns in, the pub they planned part of the revolution in and all of the other awesome old stuff the city has.
We also did some temple work in the Boston temple. Boston is a very cool city and i hope we can go back there some time.
Day 2 and 3
We drove to Maine. We decided to take this trip in fall so we could see all the fall colors. They did not disappoint. It was beautiful. The first two days we stayed in a cottage on the Southwest Harbor in Acadia National Park. We woke up to a view of the harbor and all of the lobster boats and some ships leaving for the day. It was so picturesque. Words can't describe. I will post pictures eventually. Our cottage appropriately names Eagle Watch cottage provided us with a wonderful view of an eagle in the tree right outside our window.
We went on a hike that gave us incredible views of the where the land meets the ocean. It just runs right into it. The hike ended up take a little longer than we planned because we lost our keys to the car along the way. However, after hiking the trail three times we just happened to run in to some other hikers that had found them and told us where to go and pick them up. That was divine intervention for sure.
We saw a super cool light house and, lobster boats and natural sea wall. It was an incredible place.
Day 4:
We went to Bar Harbor. We got up super early so we be the first on the continent to see the sunrise. It was incredible. Again, words can't describe. It was freezing cold but the moment was worth it.
We then went down into the town of Bar Harbour. It is an old town that reminded me a lot of Jackson Hole, WY. Except instead of mountains they have ocean. There is big sand bar that you can walk across when the tide goes out. We spent some time there collecting shells for the girls. The only bumber part of the trip was that most sailing tours had been shut down for the season. We'll take on next time we go.
It was here that the official bucket list event was fulfilled. We had a Lobster in Maine and Stewman's. It was a great experience. It is funny, they give you an instruction card with your lobster so you know how to eat it correctly. It is a pretty slick process and oh so good!
Day 5:
We traveled to the eastern most part of the United States, Eastport, MA. Saying it is the end of world would be appropriate. There is nothing there. Our accomadations were super cool. We stayed in a very nice bed and breakfast with a kitchen I will covet for the rest of my life. The town itself was pretty run down. There were a few shops and art galleries and other than that is was all but abandoned. It had its hayday and then everybody left. There were a lot of lobster boats still there and a few restaurants and a Mustard factory. Beyond that we are not sure what people do for a living there.
To reach the town you drive across a strip of land as wide as two cars. During high tide, this drive was little intimidating. It was fun to mingle with the locals at Ray's Mustard and here the accents. It really was a different world up there.
We went to Quaddy Head lighthouse during a Nor Easter storm. That was one of coolest parts of the trip in our opinion. The wind and rain were insane, the ocean was going crazy. It was super cool, the wind was so strong it literally almost blew you down. We got soaked in a matter of seconds but to watch the ocean go crazy like that was awesome. It was so powerful.
Day 6:
We traveled back to Boston and spend one last night there. We again, went out and explored around the town and enjoyed the pulse of the city.
Day 7:
We traveled back to Fairfax.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip. Scott is the ultimate trip planner. It is our first of many to come. We are such compatible travelers. We both want the same things out of vacation and we like to do the off the beaten path sort of things. I can't wait until the next one!
Scott's Family visits:
We came home from Maine with a house full of Scott's family. Hayley had come out to watch the girls for us and his parents arrived the day before we got home. It was great to spend the week with them. We took them to some of our favorite places downtown, and Harper's Ferry and Antietam. During this time we also got to talk with them about moving back to Rexburg. By the end of the trip, the decision to move home had been made. So much family stuff going on was the last little push we needed to go home. We also did some wedding planning while they were here which was super fun to be part of.
Halloween:
Halloween was great his year. Pretty low key. Kayt decided she wanted to be Cleopatra, a look she pulled off very well and Ella wanted to be a lady bug, a look she pulled off well. For a week Ella wore here costume, in variations (sometime with a witch skirt, sometimes without) but the lady bug was a constant. She loved it. It was so cute to see here in it. And of course Kayt was very regal in Cleopatra gown. She helped me make her the perfect crown for the costume and would talk about how she wanted to look everyday.
We had a preschool Halloween party at our house which went very well and the the ward Trunk or Treat. Scott and I went as Toucan Sam and Fruit Loops this year. It was a fun time for all of us.
Thanksgiving:
We hosted Thanksgiving again. It was a great time. We really enjoy hosting parties. This year we even invested in stuff to make out table look pretty. We realized we did not have enough silverware to feed all of the guests we had invited. So...we decided to buy some and some chargers and some glasses. Lets just say the table looked awesome. I can't wait for the next event we get to host!
Hayley's Wedding:
The next big event was Hayley and Justin's wedding. We again, were so glad we could be there. They are such a good looking couple and from what we here very great together. We can't wait to get to know Justin better. They were both so happy and they just glowed. The reception was incredibly beautiful with such a good fun feeling. The little girls were adorable in there little white dresses and were so excited to get all dressed up for the wedding. Even Ella acted a little more reserved in here pretty dress.
It was so fun to be part of the madness leading up to such an important day. And as always, a real treat to be in a sealing ceremony at the temple. It brings back so many memories! Go Hayley and Justin!!! We love you both.
Erickson's Come for Christmas
My family followed us back out to Virginia for Christmas. It was so great to have them here. Our place is small but we all did just great. We did spend much time in the house, which made it easier. My parents were kind enough to include us in a trip to New York the first two days of there stay. We left the girls with a friend, which was good because it was FREEZING!!!
New York at Christmas lived up to its hype. It was so fun to see all the things your see on movies. Skating at Rockefeller Center, Times Square, Central Park, Grand Central Station, Battery Park, Wall Street, Broadway. We tried to squeeze it all in. To do Scott and I figured out the Subway system. New York has it figured out. We were able to get anywhere super quick!
The first night we were there we walked out into Time Square and we all just froze. Movies don't do it justice. The lights and huge signs and energy there is crazy. And...the people watching. It doesn't get much better.
We ate a great Brazilian restaurant. Gabbi, a foreign exchange student from Brazil. Was so excited. It was so fun to watch her read the menu and giggle with delight. I can see why she misses her native cuisine. The food was excellent.
We capped the trip off seeing Wicked! It was fantastic. I love watching musicals. There is so much talent wrapped up into one incredible package.
We then traveled back to Virginia for Christmas. It was so fun this year. Kayt and Ella were at a perfect age. So much magic involved. They both swore they head Santa Clause and couldn't believe he brought just what they wanted. Scott and I and Sarah stayed up late playing elf as we finished off our homemade gifts for the girls and watched It's a Wonderful Life. We got to talk to Jake and Jeff on Christmas as well. Jake's mission president even let him Skype. He looked so good. It all made us miss him.
We also went to a traditional Swedish Yuleborg at our friends the Messenger's. It was an experience we all enjoyed.
Sunday we went to church and were surprised to see Elder Oaks sitting on the stand. That was definitely a highlight of the holiday season. He and his wife had come to spend Christmas with his daughter Jenny and her family. He reminded us of the three groups that were told of Christ's birth, The Humble, The Wise and The Heavenly.
We spent the last two days exploring the city and the area. It was such a great time having them here with us.
So.....in between all of this Scott and I have tried to make memories with Kayt and Ella. We have tried to carve out family time and enjoy each moment we have had left out here. There is so much here that we love we have tried to soak as much as we can in.
Again, thanks for the personal privilege of catching up on this year.
Easter:
Kent and Sue and there family came for Easter and to see the city. Their site seeing days went so smoothly. I was very happy, seeing as it was the first trip I had actually planned for someone.
We took the girls to a local egg hunt at Fairfax high school. The weather was perfect. It was the first year the event was held and so the crowds were minimal. Thank goodness. I doubt next year will be so pleasant.
Easter day was wonderful. We listened to conference and held the annual egg roll contest. Always a joy.
May:
Sarah's Visit. Sarah came to visit me for week after she graduated high school. It was fantastic. A good friend of mine watched my girls while she and I went into the city all by ourselves. We were able to cover a lot of ground. By the time the day ended we had both realized we hadn't eaten anything all day.
A few exciting moments:
Taking our own personal tour of the Capitol. I have been a very disappointed by the tours you get of the US capitol now. Since, I used to give tours there, I know my way around pretty good. So...instead of exiting the building when the tour was over we just meandered through a few more areas of the capitol, pretending to be part of different groups along the way. I was never able to get us all the way down to the Halls of the Senate but we did see the old Supreme Court chambers and the Old Senate chambers. Sarah was freaking out but I think she appreciated a more in depth tour!
We also went up to Ocean City, MD. Our friends Cody and Skye live up there. We went to the beach, which was very fun and hung out that evening with them. It was so great to see them and also see the Atlantic Ocean.
Finally, the night before we were all packing up to go back to Idaho, Sarah and I went out to see all of the monuments. We left about 11 pm and didn't get back until 1:30. It was the perfect time to go and see them. There was nobody there, only us and the guards and maybe one or two others. We were really able to feel the spirit of the monument. I know that sounds funny, but if you are able to go when there isn't many people, there is really a reverence to them.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip!
Trip home to Idaho;
I believe, blogged about this one already
4th of July
We decided to brave the crowds and go and see the fireworks on the Mall. We sat right on the lawn of Lincoln Memorial. It was super fun. The firework display was awesome. Getting home was not so awesome but we made it.
Birthday
Scott went all out for my birthday this year. It is the only one I have ever had away from family so he felt h was justified in making it awesome. And... he did. I had all of my favorite food and a chocolate ice cream cake from Cold Stone to top it all off. We had our friends over that night for some great Mediterranean food from our favorite spot. He took most of the day off to just hang out with me and girls. It was just a fantastic day. I don't know that I have ever been so spoiled.
My mom comes to town
My mom came out to visit in August as well. I was involved in Girls Camp so she came to watch my girls for me. She came out a little early so we could spend some time before I left. It was so fun to have her here. We went downtown one day and say the Natural History museum and the art gallery and hung out around our favorite fountain in D.C. We also went to a farmer's market at the department of agriculture building. It was just so fun to have her here, all to ourselves. My mom is my best friend and it had been awhile since we were able to just hang out. The time of her visit was also a tender mercy. She was able to be here to help us as we worked through some health troubles that came up during girls camp as well.
Grandpa Smith's Passing
Scott's Grandpa Smith passed away in September after a long battle with Cancer. Scott's parents were kind enough to fly us all home for the funeral. It was so nice to be back on the farm and with the family. There was so much love in Grandma and Grandpa's little front room as everyone gathered there to just talk and be together. Everyone told different funny stories about grandpa and family memories they all had. Scott and Brad saddled up the horse and all the little kids went for a ride. The only thing missing physically was grandpa, but we all knew he was there.
I haven't had anybody close to me die since I was pretty young (about 13 or 14). I had a really hard time with the idea of the viewing at first. But to see him looking so at peace was comforting. The experience really helped my testimony grow. Life isn't over once we die. And we will see our loved ones again.
Freedom's Run Half Marathon
Bucket List Trip to Maine
Scott and I decided to bite the bullet and take our first trip together. Scott planned a week long trip for us to Maine. I have a list of all the things I want to do before I die. (the list keeps growing) One thing on that list was to eat a lobster in Maine. We did that much more.
Day 1:
Drove to Boston. It is a super cool city. We stayed in a hotel right near where the Boston Massacre happened and the freedom trail. So we went and saw Paul Revers's house, the church he lit the lanterns in, the pub they planned part of the revolution in and all of the other awesome old stuff the city has.
We also did some temple work in the Boston temple. Boston is a very cool city and i hope we can go back there some time.
Day 2 and 3
We drove to Maine. We decided to take this trip in fall so we could see all the fall colors. They did not disappoint. It was beautiful. The first two days we stayed in a cottage on the Southwest Harbor in Acadia National Park. We woke up to a view of the harbor and all of the lobster boats and some ships leaving for the day. It was so picturesque. Words can't describe. I will post pictures eventually. Our cottage appropriately names Eagle Watch cottage provided us with a wonderful view of an eagle in the tree right outside our window.
We went on a hike that gave us incredible views of the where the land meets the ocean. It just runs right into it. The hike ended up take a little longer than we planned because we lost our keys to the car along the way. However, after hiking the trail three times we just happened to run in to some other hikers that had found them and told us where to go and pick them up. That was divine intervention for sure.
We saw a super cool light house and, lobster boats and natural sea wall. It was an incredible place.
Day 4:
We went to Bar Harbor. We got up super early so we be the first on the continent to see the sunrise. It was incredible. Again, words can't describe. It was freezing cold but the moment was worth it.
We then went down into the town of Bar Harbour. It is an old town that reminded me a lot of Jackson Hole, WY. Except instead of mountains they have ocean. There is big sand bar that you can walk across when the tide goes out. We spent some time there collecting shells for the girls. The only bumber part of the trip was that most sailing tours had been shut down for the season. We'll take on next time we go.
It was here that the official bucket list event was fulfilled. We had a Lobster in Maine and Stewman's. It was a great experience. It is funny, they give you an instruction card with your lobster so you know how to eat it correctly. It is a pretty slick process and oh so good!
Day 5:
We traveled to the eastern most part of the United States, Eastport, MA. Saying it is the end of world would be appropriate. There is nothing there. Our accomadations were super cool. We stayed in a very nice bed and breakfast with a kitchen I will covet for the rest of my life. The town itself was pretty run down. There were a few shops and art galleries and other than that is was all but abandoned. It had its hayday and then everybody left. There were a lot of lobster boats still there and a few restaurants and a Mustard factory. Beyond that we are not sure what people do for a living there.
To reach the town you drive across a strip of land as wide as two cars. During high tide, this drive was little intimidating. It was fun to mingle with the locals at Ray's Mustard and here the accents. It really was a different world up there.
We went to Quaddy Head lighthouse during a Nor Easter storm. That was one of coolest parts of the trip in our opinion. The wind and rain were insane, the ocean was going crazy. It was super cool, the wind was so strong it literally almost blew you down. We got soaked in a matter of seconds but to watch the ocean go crazy like that was awesome. It was so powerful.
Day 6:
We traveled back to Boston and spend one last night there. We again, went out and explored around the town and enjoyed the pulse of the city.
Day 7:
We traveled back to Fairfax.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip. Scott is the ultimate trip planner. It is our first of many to come. We are such compatible travelers. We both want the same things out of vacation and we like to do the off the beaten path sort of things. I can't wait until the next one!
Scott's Family visits:
We came home from Maine with a house full of Scott's family. Hayley had come out to watch the girls for us and his parents arrived the day before we got home. It was great to spend the week with them. We took them to some of our favorite places downtown, and Harper's Ferry and Antietam. During this time we also got to talk with them about moving back to Rexburg. By the end of the trip, the decision to move home had been made. So much family stuff going on was the last little push we needed to go home. We also did some wedding planning while they were here which was super fun to be part of.
Halloween:
Halloween was great his year. Pretty low key. Kayt decided she wanted to be Cleopatra, a look she pulled off very well and Ella wanted to be a lady bug, a look she pulled off well. For a week Ella wore here costume, in variations (sometime with a witch skirt, sometimes without) but the lady bug was a constant. She loved it. It was so cute to see here in it. And of course Kayt was very regal in Cleopatra gown. She helped me make her the perfect crown for the costume and would talk about how she wanted to look everyday.
We had a preschool Halloween party at our house which went very well and the the ward Trunk or Treat. Scott and I went as Toucan Sam and Fruit Loops this year. It was a fun time for all of us.
Thanksgiving:
We hosted Thanksgiving again. It was a great time. We really enjoy hosting parties. This year we even invested in stuff to make out table look pretty. We realized we did not have enough silverware to feed all of the guests we had invited. So...we decided to buy some and some chargers and some glasses. Lets just say the table looked awesome. I can't wait for the next event we get to host!
Hayley's Wedding:
The next big event was Hayley and Justin's wedding. We again, were so glad we could be there. They are such a good looking couple and from what we here very great together. We can't wait to get to know Justin better. They were both so happy and they just glowed. The reception was incredibly beautiful with such a good fun feeling. The little girls were adorable in there little white dresses and were so excited to get all dressed up for the wedding. Even Ella acted a little more reserved in here pretty dress.
It was so fun to be part of the madness leading up to such an important day. And as always, a real treat to be in a sealing ceremony at the temple. It brings back so many memories! Go Hayley and Justin!!! We love you both.
Erickson's Come for Christmas
My family followed us back out to Virginia for Christmas. It was so great to have them here. Our place is small but we all did just great. We did spend much time in the house, which made it easier. My parents were kind enough to include us in a trip to New York the first two days of there stay. We left the girls with a friend, which was good because it was FREEZING!!!
New York at Christmas lived up to its hype. It was so fun to see all the things your see on movies. Skating at Rockefeller Center, Times Square, Central Park, Grand Central Station, Battery Park, Wall Street, Broadway. We tried to squeeze it all in. To do Scott and I figured out the Subway system. New York has it figured out. We were able to get anywhere super quick!
The first night we were there we walked out into Time Square and we all just froze. Movies don't do it justice. The lights and huge signs and energy there is crazy. And...the people watching. It doesn't get much better.
We ate a great Brazilian restaurant. Gabbi, a foreign exchange student from Brazil. Was so excited. It was so fun to watch her read the menu and giggle with delight. I can see why she misses her native cuisine. The food was excellent.
We capped the trip off seeing Wicked! It was fantastic. I love watching musicals. There is so much talent wrapped up into one incredible package.
We then traveled back to Virginia for Christmas. It was so fun this year. Kayt and Ella were at a perfect age. So much magic involved. They both swore they head Santa Clause and couldn't believe he brought just what they wanted. Scott and I and Sarah stayed up late playing elf as we finished off our homemade gifts for the girls and watched It's a Wonderful Life. We got to talk to Jake and Jeff on Christmas as well. Jake's mission president even let him Skype. He looked so good. It all made us miss him.
We also went to a traditional Swedish Yuleborg at our friends the Messenger's. It was an experience we all enjoyed.
Sunday we went to church and were surprised to see Elder Oaks sitting on the stand. That was definitely a highlight of the holiday season. He and his wife had come to spend Christmas with his daughter Jenny and her family. He reminded us of the three groups that were told of Christ's birth, The Humble, The Wise and The Heavenly.
We spent the last two days exploring the city and the area. It was such a great time having them here with us.
So.....in between all of this Scott and I have tried to make memories with Kayt and Ella. We have tried to carve out family time and enjoy each moment we have had left out here. There is so much here that we love we have tried to soak as much as we can in.
Again, thanks for the personal privilege of catching up on this year.
Friday, November 26, 2010
Thanks (by Scott)
I'm sitting in the bathroom while the girls take their baths this Friday morning. They smelled of turkey gravy. Kayt and Ella are taking turns dumping water over the other's head. Kristen is out braving the hordes of raging, sleep-deprived soccer moms doing Black Friday shopping. (Although, I know a couple of my most masculine/jacked friends are out there too. I told them to lower their shoulder if they encounter anybody too crazy.) She loves the shopping and the people watching. I love staying home, listening to the girls play, and shopping online.
It's supposed to be around 60 degrees today, the perfect temperature for a nice run with Kristen. Afterwards, we'll start putting up the Christmas decorations. Tonight we'll go over to a friend's home for a pie contest. Yesterday was Thanksgiving, and we spent it with more friends. In the evening we talked and laughed with family at home in Idaho.
Maybe it's the nostalgia of starting of the holiday season, the annual accounting of all our blessings that comes with Thanksgiving, or simply having a few days off, but I'm just so happy with life. I really feel I need to acknowledge the Lord's hand in all the good in my life. I've had so many breaks, been given so many opportunities, been blessed with so many little things I never deserve - and they all come from the Lord.
Kristen is just getting more beautiful, more wise, more service-oriented the longer we're married. I've been close to her for 10 years now and still have nothing but admiration for the real Kristen. She's a natural mother. She's still a crack-up. Everyone she meets becomes an immediate friend. In crisis, she turns first to God. Last night we laid in bed and laughed until our faces hurt. She's almost been a single mom at times with my work, school, and church responsibilties but has never been a complainer. In the mean time, she's become the expert on wherever we're living and my link to normalcy. What an example for our strong little girls.
Kayt is so sweet that if she wasn't just five it would be hard to believe. She has a deep concern for everyone and everything. Movies and books that she's seen and read over and over still bring out the rawest emotions. Real life is even more drastic. She doesn't want anyone to be hurt or left out, and is so meticulous in caring for others that I'm afraid she'll wear herself out before she's a teenager. I haven't come across a more intelligent child. Yes I'm biased, but the details she remembers and concepts she grasps at first pass are really remarkable. She also has some fire. One time I cornered her while playing chase. She looked around, picked up a board, and was ready to club me in order to get out.
Ella is the definition of childhood joy. She runs everywhere, her thick hair always bouncing and trailing behind her. She laughs hard, has great comedic timing at the ripe age of 2, and loves to wrestle. She loves to hit playfully, and give squish-hugs. She's picked up the alphabet, numbers, months, days of the week, etc. just as quickly as Kayt - probably quicker as she's attended pre-school with Kayt a few times. She's also started calculating the cost-benefit of things she really wants but that aren't allowed. I think she'll be our first trip to the emergency room, but is always the first to make us laugh too.
I'm so grateful for where I come from. Living away from family has made me realize just how unique the loving, respect-filled relationships we have with our parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, and extended family really are. We're close to everyone, and can honestly say we'd like to spend any night of the week with them. They're all just solid, good people and have been for generations. You look at the virtuous daughters and can see the influences of mothers, grandmothers, great-grandmothers. You look at the strong sons and can see the influences of fathers, grandfathers, great-grandfathers. I feel that legacy. It's been cemented this year with the death of my grandfather, and a scary period where we thought that Kristen and the baby she was carrying were in serious trouble. The religion of our fathers, their prayers on both sides of the veil, and the way everyone circled the wagons was just another testament to the strength god-fearing parents can build into their families.
Friends here, in Columbus, and in Idaho have always been a wonderful blessing. Our wards in Fairfax and Columbus have become family. They've exposed us to so many new and wonderful things and have been there when family was just too far away.
I'm grateful for the blessing of education, and the breaks a lazy high school student was given that ended up leading to great college and graduate school experiences and a lifetime of security.
I know that all of these things didn't come from my own doing. I was incredibly lucky to be born into my family, to be raised in my hometown, to meet my wife and become a part of her family, to be blessed with two healthy girls, to have the means to attend some great schools, to live in a place where opportunities are limitless. All that "luck" comes from a Savior that is looking for me to use it. I'm trying.
I'm going to stop the rambling now and I hope this isn't interpreted as boasting. I know a lot of people struggle to find anything to smile about. Sometimes it's just for a moment, but sometimes it doesn't seem to end. I've been there too. In one of my darkest times when I was ready to abandon the Lord, He told me to be humble. I've found that humility and gratitude and joy are intertwined. The first step for me is humility. Again, I'm trying.
Be thou humble in thy weakness, and the Lord thy God shall lead thee,
Shall lead thee by the hand and give thee answer to thy prayers.
Be thou humble in thy pleading, and the Lord thy God shall bless thee,
Shall bless thee with a sweet and calm assurance that he cares.
Be thou humble in thy calling, and the Lord thy God shall teach thee
To serve his children gladly with a pure and gentle love.
Be thou humble in thy longing, and the Lord thy God shall take thee,
Shall take thee home at last to ever dwell with him above.
Hope you all had a great Thanksgiving, and have a great Christmas. Sure love you.
It's supposed to be around 60 degrees today, the perfect temperature for a nice run with Kristen. Afterwards, we'll start putting up the Christmas decorations. Tonight we'll go over to a friend's home for a pie contest. Yesterday was Thanksgiving, and we spent it with more friends. In the evening we talked and laughed with family at home in Idaho.
Maybe it's the nostalgia of starting of the holiday season, the annual accounting of all our blessings that comes with Thanksgiving, or simply having a few days off, but I'm just so happy with life. I really feel I need to acknowledge the Lord's hand in all the good in my life. I've had so many breaks, been given so many opportunities, been blessed with so many little things I never deserve - and they all come from the Lord.
Kristen is just getting more beautiful, more wise, more service-oriented the longer we're married. I've been close to her for 10 years now and still have nothing but admiration for the real Kristen. She's a natural mother. She's still a crack-up. Everyone she meets becomes an immediate friend. In crisis, she turns first to God. Last night we laid in bed and laughed until our faces hurt. She's almost been a single mom at times with my work, school, and church responsibilties but has never been a complainer. In the mean time, she's become the expert on wherever we're living and my link to normalcy. What an example for our strong little girls.
Kayt is so sweet that if she wasn't just five it would be hard to believe. She has a deep concern for everyone and everything. Movies and books that she's seen and read over and over still bring out the rawest emotions. Real life is even more drastic. She doesn't want anyone to be hurt or left out, and is so meticulous in caring for others that I'm afraid she'll wear herself out before she's a teenager. I haven't come across a more intelligent child. Yes I'm biased, but the details she remembers and concepts she grasps at first pass are really remarkable. She also has some fire. One time I cornered her while playing chase. She looked around, picked up a board, and was ready to club me in order to get out.
Ella is the definition of childhood joy. She runs everywhere, her thick hair always bouncing and trailing behind her. She laughs hard, has great comedic timing at the ripe age of 2, and loves to wrestle. She loves to hit playfully, and give squish-hugs. She's picked up the alphabet, numbers, months, days of the week, etc. just as quickly as Kayt - probably quicker as she's attended pre-school with Kayt a few times. She's also started calculating the cost-benefit of things she really wants but that aren't allowed. I think she'll be our first trip to the emergency room, but is always the first to make us laugh too.
I'm so grateful for where I come from. Living away from family has made me realize just how unique the loving, respect-filled relationships we have with our parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, and extended family really are. We're close to everyone, and can honestly say we'd like to spend any night of the week with them. They're all just solid, good people and have been for generations. You look at the virtuous daughters and can see the influences of mothers, grandmothers, great-grandmothers. You look at the strong sons and can see the influences of fathers, grandfathers, great-grandfathers. I feel that legacy. It's been cemented this year with the death of my grandfather, and a scary period where we thought that Kristen and the baby she was carrying were in serious trouble. The religion of our fathers, their prayers on both sides of the veil, and the way everyone circled the wagons was just another testament to the strength god-fearing parents can build into their families.
Friends here, in Columbus, and in Idaho have always been a wonderful blessing. Our wards in Fairfax and Columbus have become family. They've exposed us to so many new and wonderful things and have been there when family was just too far away.
I'm grateful for the blessing of education, and the breaks a lazy high school student was given that ended up leading to great college and graduate school experiences and a lifetime of security.
I know that all of these things didn't come from my own doing. I was incredibly lucky to be born into my family, to be raised in my hometown, to meet my wife and become a part of her family, to be blessed with two healthy girls, to have the means to attend some great schools, to live in a place where opportunities are limitless. All that "luck" comes from a Savior that is looking for me to use it. I'm trying.
I'm going to stop the rambling now and I hope this isn't interpreted as boasting. I know a lot of people struggle to find anything to smile about. Sometimes it's just for a moment, but sometimes it doesn't seem to end. I've been there too. In one of my darkest times when I was ready to abandon the Lord, He told me to be humble. I've found that humility and gratitude and joy are intertwined. The first step for me is humility. Again, I'm trying.
Be thou humble in thy weakness, and the Lord thy God shall lead thee,
Shall lead thee by the hand and give thee answer to thy prayers.
Be thou humble in thy pleading, and the Lord thy God shall bless thee,
Shall bless thee with a sweet and calm assurance that he cares.
Be thou humble in thy calling, and the Lord thy God shall teach thee
To serve his children gladly with a pure and gentle love.
Be thou humble in thy longing, and the Lord thy God shall take thee,
Shall take thee home at last to ever dwell with him above.
Hope you all had a great Thanksgiving, and have a great Christmas. Sure love you.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Play Dough
Kayt and Sherie played with play dough just before she left. Kayt created this hairy crab. I thought it was so cute, and she was so proud. A picture had to be taken. The clay looking thing hanging from it, "his pincher claw" - Kayt
A surprise visit!!!
Is there anything better than a surprise visit from family? In my world, NO. Scott's mom called about a week ago and asked what we were doing for Labor Day. Scott is in another busy season so we had zero plans. She said that is great because I am coming out?
I love Scott's mom. She has a knack for knowing what you need before you know. If that makes sense. After she left, I realized how timely her visit was for our little family. It has been a roller coaster month, to say the least. It was so nice for both Scott and I to be 1) taken care of and 2) have an excuse to step out of our normal routine. My girls especially needed some grandma love. They always do, no matter how much they have gotten!
I think it was especially good for Scott to connect back to home. I really feel like he needed his mom. He has been worn ragged trying to take care of me, our girls and then also work. He got a little behind playing Mr. Mom for a bit and had to catch up last week. No matter how old you get, there is nothing like having your mom around.
The visit gave us an excuse to get outside. We went to Old Town Alexandria and met up with Tiff , Kurt and Kylie Linford. We also played at the park, multiple times and went swimming (of course).
Thank you so much for making the quick trip mom. It was what we all needed!
Old Cemetery in Alexandria. The Revolutionary War tomb of the Unknown soldier is here. And it was also the church were George Washington had his funeral.
Here lies a soldier of the Revolution whose identity is known but to God.
His was an idealism that recognized the Supreme Being, that planted religious liberty
on our shores, that overthrew despotism, that established a people's government,
that wrote a Constitution stting metes and bounds of delegated authority,
that fixed a standard of value upon men above gold and lifted
high the torch of civil liberty along the pathway of mankind.
In ourselves his soul exists as part or ours, his memory's mansion.
And yes, Ella made it to the top by herself!!
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
My Mom Has Come!!!
So, I was asked to be part of girls camp this year on a stake level. I was so excited and my wonderful mother came out to watch my kids. Well, that was the excuse anyway. She came on a Wednesday and camp wasn't until Monday!!! I have never had my mom visit my home by herself so I was super pumped. All of my excited was justified. I love being around my mom. I love just hanging out and talking with her. Doing things to together etc. My mom and I are so similar in many ways it makes it easy to be around each other.
It was so nice to just be together. Chatting, playing with the girls, watching old movies while eating popcorn, touring around, cooking. All the good stuff!!! Scott especially enjoyed the good food (mainly breakfast!, he never gets it at our house.)
My girls were dying with anticipation. They asked everyday for a week if grandma was coming. My mom got in around 11:30 and Kayt refused to go to bed because she wanted to pick her up. When she say her, she just sprinted down the terminal yelling "GRANDMA!!" I love that my girls have such strong relationships already with their grandma's. My grandmothers are so special to me. And my childhood is filled with so many fond memories with them. I want that so bad for Kayt and Ella. That closeness is a huge reason we are going to be moving back to Idaho soon.
We had such a great time while my mom was here. I was so torn going to girls camp. However, because of some issues, I was able to spend the last two days of her trip with her too. Thanks so much for being here when I needed you in so many ways. I love you mom!
It was so nice to just be together. Chatting, playing with the girls, watching old movies while eating popcorn, touring around, cooking. All the good stuff!!! Scott especially enjoyed the good food (mainly breakfast!, he never gets it at our house.)
My girls were dying with anticipation. They asked everyday for a week if grandma was coming. My mom got in around 11:30 and Kayt refused to go to bed because she wanted to pick her up. When she say her, she just sprinted down the terminal yelling "GRANDMA!!" I love that my girls have such strong relationships already with their grandma's. My grandmothers are so special to me. And my childhood is filled with so many fond memories with them. I want that so bad for Kayt and Ella. That closeness is a huge reason we are going to be moving back to Idaho soon.
Natural history museum
Butterfly house at the museum. I actually had one land on purse. Thank goodness for the obnoxious double doors. I would have walked right out!
One of our favorite spots in the city.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
No Work and All Play
So, I just finished up my summer course teaching government and I am feeling like a new woman. I don't teach again until November. It has been two days of getting caught up and just being with my girls. Some crazy things have happened in our world the last couple of weeks and once again I have gained so much comfort from just watching and being with Kayt and Ella. While I hate to have the reminders I am grateful for how much more I love being a mother after each little trial.
It may get old sooner rather than later but I have just loved taking care of my husband, my girls and my house the last few days and having nothing else to worry about. I really do find joy in being a stay at home mom. Scott has had a crazy schedule the last week and I love that I can cook him a good meal and make the house feel nice and welcoming after his long crazy days. I love that my patience is increased by not stressing about students. I love that I have to bring my girls with me to mutual. I am just oozing with happiness right now! I am so blessed.
I also wanted to jot down a few things about the girls as well.
Kayt:
Kayt can swim!! I am not just talking keep herself floating but she can full on swim in very deep water and for long distances. She swim the entire width of the pool! Her new trick in jumping into the deep and end and swimming back to the side by herself!
The girls have resorted to stuffed dogs. After many months of convincing me they should have one they finally gave up. Now Hoewa and Sadie go everywhere. I keep telling them stuffed dogs are better because they can go more places. Kayt keep reminding me that she still wants a real one someday.
Ella:
Ella came to Scott the other day while I was sleeping and said, "I'm tired" Scott "okay go get your Jammies on and I will read you stories." Ella disappeared for a moment and came back "Daddy can I hold you?" It melted his heart and mine when I heard the story.
I came into the room yesterday while Ella was watching Elmo and she was doing the hokey poky with the show. She has never done that before but she really got into it. I watched inconspicuously and she put her whole self and shook it all about.
There is more, but it is late and time for bed!!
It may get old sooner rather than later but I have just loved taking care of my husband, my girls and my house the last few days and having nothing else to worry about. I really do find joy in being a stay at home mom. Scott has had a crazy schedule the last week and I love that I can cook him a good meal and make the house feel nice and welcoming after his long crazy days. I love that my patience is increased by not stressing about students. I love that I have to bring my girls with me to mutual. I am just oozing with happiness right now! I am so blessed.
I also wanted to jot down a few things about the girls as well.
Kayt:
Kayt can swim!! I am not just talking keep herself floating but she can full on swim in very deep water and for long distances. She swim the entire width of the pool! Her new trick in jumping into the deep and end and swimming back to the side by herself!
The girls have resorted to stuffed dogs. After many months of convincing me they should have one they finally gave up. Now Hoewa and Sadie go everywhere. I keep telling them stuffed dogs are better because they can go more places. Kayt keep reminding me that she still wants a real one someday.
Ella:
Ella came to Scott the other day while I was sleeping and said, "I'm tired" Scott "okay go get your Jammies on and I will read you stories." Ella disappeared for a moment and came back "Daddy can I hold you?" It melted his heart and mine when I heard the story.
I came into the room yesterday while Ella was watching Elmo and she was doing the hokey poky with the show. She has never done that before but she really got into it. I watched inconspicuously and she put her whole self and shook it all about.
There is more, but it is late and time for bed!!
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Funny E-mail
I recieved the following e-mail today from our relief society president. While I should be bothered and probably a little paranoid, I am just laughing!!
"I've been asked by a sister in the ward to send out an e-mail informing parents of Primary-age children that her Primary-aged children have lice."
I guess they need to include a sign outside of the primary, not just the nursery, about keeping children with bugs growing on their head home. No really, honest mistake I am sure but I will be digging out the number two pencil, sharpening it up and combing it through Kayt's hair this week!
You gotta love church!
"I've been asked by a sister in the ward to send out an e-mail informing parents of Primary-age children that her Primary-aged children have lice."
I guess they need to include a sign outside of the primary, not just the nursery, about keeping children with bugs growing on their head home. No really, honest mistake I am sure but I will be digging out the number two pencil, sharpening it up and combing it through Kayt's hair this week!
You gotta love church!
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Funny Girls
The other day I went down stairs to our court yard to pick up a seashell the girls had lost over the balcony. Not paying attention, I locked myself out. The girls were sitting up on the balcony watching me retreive their precious seashell so asked them to come downstairs and let me in. They both jumped up and I thought headed down stairs. Ten minutes later I could hear them giggling in the living room. I called to Kayt to come out and tell me what was going on. She appeared on the porch, now fully dressed (she was in her P.J.'s before), and explained she was trying to help Ella. I thought she was trying to help her get her shoes on so I responded, "Ella is fine, just come down and let me in. Another 10 minutes later they finally show up at the door. I started laughing so hard I nearly wet my pants as Ella came penguin walking down the last stair and to the door. She had put on a pair of her pajama pants, only both legs were in one leg hole. It was the funniest thing I had seen. She tripped several time in the short space to the door. I don't know how she got down three flights of stairs without killing herself but thank goodness she did.
I looked at Kayt who was also laughing and said, "no wonder you thought you needed to help Ella!" They are the silliest little girls ever, who love each other so much. They just melt my heart!
On another note, yesterday was the first day in 4 years and 8 months that I have not changed a diaper!!!!!! (and the crowd goes wild!!!!!!!!). Yes ladies and gentleman, Ella K. Smith has decided to potty train herself. All I had to do was buy some Jelly Bellies. She just decided it was time to start peeing on the potty. This all started last Friday and the last two days have been nearly accident free, (just 1). I did not have to pry, bribe, coerce, beat my head against a wall, nothing!! She just decided to do it. How did I get so lucky!!!
I keep waiting for her to change her mind but as long as I keep the Jelly Bellies comin' she is game. My baby grew up on me : )
The best has part has been to see her Kayt interact with it all. Ella could care less if Scott and I are proud, it is Kayt she is aiming to please. She wants Kayt to see every time she goes and comes running to her yelling, " I did it." Kayt has been so sweet to respond with a lot of enthusiasm and praise. She will go and sit with her and read her stories and go running in after her to encourage her. It has been so cute to watch.
I looked at Kayt who was also laughing and said, "no wonder you thought you needed to help Ella!" They are the silliest little girls ever, who love each other so much. They just melt my heart!
On another note, yesterday was the first day in 4 years and 8 months that I have not changed a diaper!!!!!! (and the crowd goes wild!!!!!!!!). Yes ladies and gentleman, Ella K. Smith has decided to potty train herself. All I had to do was buy some Jelly Bellies. She just decided it was time to start peeing on the potty. This all started last Friday and the last two days have been nearly accident free, (just 1). I did not have to pry, bribe, coerce, beat my head against a wall, nothing!! She just decided to do it. How did I get so lucky!!!
I keep waiting for her to change her mind but as long as I keep the Jelly Bellies comin' she is game. My baby grew up on me : )
The best has part has been to see her Kayt interact with it all. Ella could care less if Scott and I are proud, it is Kayt she is aiming to please. She wants Kayt to see every time she goes and comes running to her yelling, " I did it." Kayt has been so sweet to respond with a lot of enthusiasm and praise. She will go and sit with her and read her stories and go running in after her to encourage her. It has been so cute to watch.
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Happy 4th of July
For the 4th this year we decided to do the American thing and head into the nation capitol and watch the fireworks. We made the 6 hour (20 mile)round trip journey and joined 1 million others to salute our country. We found a great spot on the lawn of the Lincoln Memorial and had a great time. Getting out of the city was the craziest thing I have ever done but we made it and enjoyed it.
Keeping Up
I can't believe how time flys. It seems I was just on here trying to update and here it has been over a month and I am still behind with more to catch up on. It has just been too busy. I sit and wonder at night if being so busy is keeping me from doing the important things. I get so caught up in the day to day tasks I forget to take a moment and enjoy each moment I have with my beautiful girls and wonderful husband. Learning of the passing of an acquaintance of ours 18 month daughter again reminded me of how precious each day with my family is and how much I want to remember and cherish each moment. So instead of working, I am going to blog my memories.
HOME TO IDAHO
We were able to take our vacation in June and head home to Idaho. I say home because it has always been and will always be where our hearts and thoughts are. I was able to see my two nieces and nephew, Julia, Leah and Emmitt, that have been born since we were last home. We were also able to visit with all of our brothers and sisters (minus Jake, Jeff and Brad :( ) and spend some time with each of our grandparents as well.
Kayt about summed up everyone's feelings as she cried while walking through the security gate at the airport. The promise of phone calls and skype just wasn't enough, it never is. But alas here we are back in Virginia making the most of it.
We started our trip with a great time up in Midway, UT with my family. I am always reminded why I miss being around my whole fam when we get together. WE have so much fun! There is just the right combination of personalities that there is never a dull moment. I didn't want to go to bed each night because I was afraid I would miss something, a moment to enjoy everyone just that much more. The only downside was not having Jared, Cassi and Emmitt there with us but we are planning on them making a roaring appearance at our next family "reunion" we have to call it that now. (BOOOOO) I am so blessed to have the family I do that loves each other and cares about each other and does what it takes to all be in the same place at the same time.
Highlights of the trip were
1-world cup soccer
2-settlers of Cattan way too late at night
3-seeing Emmitt and Julia for the first time
4-hanging out with my mom, emily, sarah and cassi
5-watching Kayt, Ella and Baron march in circles on the bed singing "Fall down, fall down"
6-Baron yelling "To infinity and beyond" and "Komanda" (Kung fo Panda)
7-Singing Jarry Happy Birthday! he never gets embarrassed but this time he was.
8-Watching the lightning storm camping up near Hisee
9-Taking Kayt and Ella camping with my parents
10- The zoo with grandma flamm and grandma erickson. It is a special feeling when you relive memories you had as a child with your own girls.
11- Running early in the morning and watching the sun come up over the Tetons
We also spent a week at Scott's parents house. It was the first time we have all been there together. It was so fun to just hang out with his family. I am very lucky to have such great inlaws. The four little girls were so funny to watch. They could play for hours and not get tired of each other. It makes me excited for the future as they all grow up together.
Highlights with the Smith's
1-Dad's 50th birthday
2-The mouse hunt
3-Kayt learning to ride a bike
4-Riding in the fast car with Grandpa Dye
5-Kayt riding paint all by herself at grandpa smith's farm
6-Seeing a happy and content Scott come home from a long day of fishing
7-Watching Kayt, Ella and Lainy test there courage running further down the road (lead by lainy)
8-Beauty and the Beast with Kayt and Ella on my lap on the front row! It was a little too intense for them
9-having Kayt and Ella wave to Bishop Smith on the stand in church
10-Cassi's softball game, and our running commentary. We are pretty funny!
11-Scaring Sarah my sister with he Gorilla mask
12-Introducing Scott's sisters to the art of toilet papering
My camera broke but I did get these before it went down.
It was a fantastic trip home. We got to see a lot of family and remember why we will always call Rexburg home.
HOME TO IDAHO
We were able to take our vacation in June and head home to Idaho. I say home because it has always been and will always be where our hearts and thoughts are. I was able to see my two nieces and nephew, Julia, Leah and Emmitt, that have been born since we were last home. We were also able to visit with all of our brothers and sisters (minus Jake, Jeff and Brad :( ) and spend some time with each of our grandparents as well.
Kayt about summed up everyone's feelings as she cried while walking through the security gate at the airport. The promise of phone calls and skype just wasn't enough, it never is. But alas here we are back in Virginia making the most of it.
We started our trip with a great time up in Midway, UT with my family. I am always reminded why I miss being around my whole fam when we get together. WE have so much fun! There is just the right combination of personalities that there is never a dull moment. I didn't want to go to bed each night because I was afraid I would miss something, a moment to enjoy everyone just that much more. The only downside was not having Jared, Cassi and Emmitt there with us but we are planning on them making a roaring appearance at our next family "reunion" we have to call it that now. (BOOOOO) I am so blessed to have the family I do that loves each other and cares about each other and does what it takes to all be in the same place at the same time.
Highlights of the trip were
1-world cup soccer
2-settlers of Cattan way too late at night
3-seeing Emmitt and Julia for the first time
4-hanging out with my mom, emily, sarah and cassi
5-watching Kayt, Ella and Baron march in circles on the bed singing "Fall down, fall down"
6-Baron yelling "To infinity and beyond" and "Komanda" (Kung fo Panda)
7-Singing Jarry Happy Birthday! he never gets embarrassed but this time he was.
8-Watching the lightning storm camping up near Hisee
9-Taking Kayt and Ella camping with my parents
10- The zoo with grandma flamm and grandma erickson. It is a special feeling when you relive memories you had as a child with your own girls.
11- Running early in the morning and watching the sun come up over the Tetons
We also spent a week at Scott's parents house. It was the first time we have all been there together. It was so fun to just hang out with his family. I am very lucky to have such great inlaws. The four little girls were so funny to watch. They could play for hours and not get tired of each other. It makes me excited for the future as they all grow up together.
Highlights with the Smith's
1-Dad's 50th birthday
2-The mouse hunt
3-Kayt learning to ride a bike
4-Riding in the fast car with Grandpa Dye
5-Kayt riding paint all by herself at grandpa smith's farm
6-Seeing a happy and content Scott come home from a long day of fishing
7-Watching Kayt, Ella and Lainy test there courage running further down the road (lead by lainy)
8-Beauty and the Beast with Kayt and Ella on my lap on the front row! It was a little too intense for them
9-having Kayt and Ella wave to Bishop Smith on the stand in church
10-Cassi's softball game, and our running commentary. We are pretty funny!
11-Scaring Sarah my sister with he Gorilla mask
12-Introducing Scott's sisters to the art of toilet papering
My camera broke but I did get these before it went down.
It was a fantastic trip home. We got to see a lot of family and remember why we will always call Rexburg home.
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Ella Turns Two
Well, my baby is all grown up. I can't even believe she is two. The problem is she is two going on 4 or 5 or 6. You get the point. She really is not a baby anymore. How does it go so fast?
All Ella wanted for here birthday was an Elmo cake. I think it turned out pretty good in the end and she was pleased as punch. She still talks about having another birthday with her Elmo cake. Kayt made some great decorations for the walls and hung them up. She also wrapped Ella's favorite gift, the Baby Doll. She just couldn't let go of Kayt's old dirty one (which she is still very possessive of) so we got her her very own. It was a highlight for both girls.
( This is Ella eating a cup of whole wheat flour, yes it is her favorite)
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| Digital scrapbooking design made with Smilebox |
So here is my ode to my Ella Girl. I have never met a happier, more easy going, loving, playful, funny, adventurous little girl. A lot of kids are cute and funny but Ella at two does things to try and make you laugh and cracks herself up in the process. She loves to talk and sing and can talk your ear off if you let her.
Ella loves to play and play and play. She never stops and nothing is too dangerous for this girl. I have finally stopped looking all the time at the playground. I wait for her to yell for help. Otherwise I go crazy trying to be there when I think she might fall. The girl is a monkey, she never falls and never gets scared. For example she got stuck on some very skinny ladder stair on the playground. I watched as she tried to figure out how to turn herself around. She ended up losing her balance, wrapping around the pole and slide down fireman style. When she touched ground she said "whoa....that was fun" I am not kidding, this out of the mouth of a 25 month old.
Ella is a tease. Poor Kayt takes the brunt, but everything is a game. She gets this glimmer in her eye and you know the game has begun. She often runs laughing hysterically in the wrong direction just waiting for you to follow her, when you do she laughs even harder. She is a bad influence on Kayt at times. Kayt never hid in the clothes racks at stores, not anymore.
Ella is an outside girl through and through. She sits out on the porch all day long just playing on her picnic table, finding someway to thrill herself in a dangerous manner. All she ever wants to do is go play outside with her friends. There's a little boy in our complex, she possessively calls her boy. "I want to go play with my boy, where is my boy?" It is pretty funny.
The only thing Ella likes more than playing outside is going to the pet store to see the puppies and the kitties. She has no greater joy in life. She starts screaming as soon as we pull in the parking lot. I see kitties and puppies, I wish I could record it for you because it is hilarious. She flies in to the store out of control like and starts exclaiming, "thats and cute puppy! Oh so cute puppy!" We are regulars at Petland for better or worse.
Though Ella is getting so big and so smart, she is still my baby. She loves to read books and snuggle and I love it too. My favorite is to rock a bye here in the middle of night. She is such a snuggler, she finds her perfect spot on your shoulder and lets her full weight rest on you. There is nothing better. I love watching my strong willed little thrill seeker sleep. I often watch and think of what the world will have in store for my little Ella girl and I worry and get anxious and then I think, what Ella will have in store for the world and think, get out of her way and watch out!
Happy Birthday Ella, I Love You.
Monday, May 24, 2010
The funny things kids say....
Now I realize I have been a non-existent blogger the last little bit. I got in way overhead teaching courses the last 16 weeks. However, that is over so be prepared for major updates coming your way. In the meantime, here are a few things that might make you laugh. A warning to the reader...if anatomically correct names of the body, as said by 4 year olds offend you, please do not continue reading.
FUNNY MOMENT ONE....
Anyway, the other day preschool had ended and they were sitting at the table talking and eating their lunch. We have been studying geography type things. i.e. adresses, states, continents etc. One of the moms overheard the following converation.
little girl 1: you can't say Penus
little girl 2: or vagina (slight pause) But you can say VIRGINIA!
little girl 1: And Utah...I used to live in Utah.....
And the conversation continued from there. I don't know if any of you find that as funny as I did but as I was telling Scott, i was laughing to tears. It was such an innocent conversation. And just showed how quickly and easily their brains move from one thing to the next.
NEXT FUNNY MOMENT....
Wednesday is my laundrey day. I usually do the luandry once have put the girls down for their afternoon nap. Out machines are down two flights of stairs so it is just easier to do when they are asleep for many reasons. Anyway, while heading out with my first load I realized our pool passes were due that day and it would be too late to turn them in by the time the girls woke up. So being the bad mom I am, I checked to make sure they were asleep and quickly ran to the office just a building down. I was gone perhaps 5 minutes. As I was opening the door I heard Kayt wailing in distress...."oh no, what do we do? Oh no, oh no, mom, oh no." I quickly ran back their to find Kayt wrenched in agiony and Ella asleep on the floor at the end of the bed trying to catch her breath, like she had been sobbing uncontrollably.
I quickly asked Kayt what had happened, seeing how this was not the condition I left them in, and she replied, "mom, we thought you were arrested!" "We didn't know what to do." I quickly asked with my most concerned face, why would I have been arrested, "because you took a long, long, long, long time changing the laundry."
I settled her down and she quickly went back to sleep. I had a good laugh to myself as I pondered the unintentional agony I had just put my poor kids through. Can't crying out in agony and Ella succumbing to tiredness while assuming the fetal position on the floor at the base of the bed.
What a horrible mother I am. I guess I won't do that again.
FUNNY MOMENT ONE....
(the three little girls are the culprits of the story)
This past year Kayt has been in a coop preschool with some LDS ladies that live near us. It has been a fantastic experience for both of us. The other moms are very dedicated and really know how to teach. I struggle to perform at their level but try. Anyway, the other day preschool had ended and they were sitting at the table talking and eating their lunch. We have been studying geography type things. i.e. adresses, states, continents etc. One of the moms overheard the following converation.
little girl 1: you can't say Penus
little girl 2: or vagina (slight pause) But you can say VIRGINIA!
little girl 1: And Utah...I used to live in Utah.....
And the conversation continued from there. I don't know if any of you find that as funny as I did but as I was telling Scott, i was laughing to tears. It was such an innocent conversation. And just showed how quickly and easily their brains move from one thing to the next.
NEXT FUNNY MOMENT....
Wednesday is my laundrey day. I usually do the luandry once have put the girls down for their afternoon nap. Out machines are down two flights of stairs so it is just easier to do when they are asleep for many reasons. Anyway, while heading out with my first load I realized our pool passes were due that day and it would be too late to turn them in by the time the girls woke up. So being the bad mom I am, I checked to make sure they were asleep and quickly ran to the office just a building down. I was gone perhaps 5 minutes. As I was opening the door I heard Kayt wailing in distress...."oh no, what do we do? Oh no, oh no, mom, oh no." I quickly ran back their to find Kayt wrenched in agiony and Ella asleep on the floor at the end of the bed trying to catch her breath, like she had been sobbing uncontrollably.
I quickly asked Kayt what had happened, seeing how this was not the condition I left them in, and she replied, "mom, we thought you were arrested!" "We didn't know what to do." I quickly asked with my most concerned face, why would I have been arrested, "because you took a long, long, long, long time changing the laundry."
I settled her down and she quickly went back to sleep. I had a good laugh to myself as I pondered the unintentional agony I had just put my poor kids through. Can't crying out in agony and Ella succumbing to tiredness while assuming the fetal position on the floor at the base of the bed.
What a horrible mother I am. I guess I won't do that again.
Yes..this is Ella hanging out naked singing songs from her hymn book. I got distracted after bathtime!
Monday, April 26, 2010
What's a Tax Season Widow to Do?
I took advantage of some cheap tickets to go home and spend a couple weeks with my fam. The only bummer was that Virginia got the biggest snow storm in history so Scott was home some of the time while I was gone but what do you do?
While home we took advantage of the snow and Smith Park. That was always a highlight growing up, sledding and going home for Hot Chocolate. Ella was not interested AT ALL which is why she hung out at the top of the hill with my mom. Kayt loved it until she went off a jump three times in a row and crashed on her face three times in a row. I tried to make her miss but it never seemed to work out. She was done after that.
In March I took a road trip to see my friends from Columbus. I still have such a fondness for Columbus. I can't put my finger on one reason but I could list about 100. This was our first long road trip by ourselves. We traveled for 7 hours. The girls did great! They are such great travelers. Thank goodness.
It was so good to see everyone and spend some time with Sarah Crockett. She is one of those friends that literally saved your life. Someone that should have been born a sister so you had more chances to get together. Here are a few highlights. Of course I didn't take many pictures, a big problem I have, but there's enough to remember the trip. The big highlights, The Columbus ZOO-there is nothing better and GRAETER'S ICE CREAM. We brought a whole cooler packed with dry ice, home to be enjoyed later.
At Graeter's we met up with some friends. Kayt got to her sole mate Leah Nelson. The first time they met, all that was said was 'do you like princesses?' they grabbed hands and were connected since.
I got to catch up with Shirley Cooper. One of the finest women I have ever been able to visit teach. My view of visiting teaching will forever be changed because of her. She taught me what is was really all about.
All in all, a great trip back Columbus.
While home we took advantage of the snow and Smith Park. That was always a highlight growing up, sledding and going home for Hot Chocolate. Ella was not interested AT ALL which is why she hung out at the top of the hill with my mom. Kayt loved it until she went off a jump three times in a row and crashed on her face three times in a row. I tried to make her miss but it never seemed to work out. She was done after that.
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| This picture collage made with Smilebox We also got to watch Sarah and Cassie play their last few games of Basketball. It has been great being able to cheer them on. Crazy that it is all over. Here are some shots of the super stars.     My personal favorite: crazy we are all grown up! |
In March I took a road trip to see my friends from Columbus. I still have such a fondness for Columbus. I can't put my finger on one reason but I could list about 100. This was our first long road trip by ourselves. We traveled for 7 hours. The girls did great! They are such great travelers. Thank goodness.
It was so good to see everyone and spend some time with Sarah Crockett. She is one of those friends that literally saved your life. Someone that should have been born a sister so you had more chances to get together. Here are a few highlights. Of course I didn't take many pictures, a big problem I have, but there's enough to remember the trip. The big highlights, The Columbus ZOO-there is nothing better and GRAETER'S ICE CREAM. We brought a whole cooler packed with dry ice, home to be enjoyed later.
At Graeter's we met up with some friends. Kayt got to her sole mate Leah Nelson. The first time they met, all that was said was 'do you like princesses?' they grabbed hands and were connected since.
I got to catch up with Shirley Cooper. One of the finest women I have ever been able to visit teach. My view of visiting teaching will forever be changed because of her. She taught me what is was really all about.
All in all, a great trip back Columbus.
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| A free digital collage by Smilebox |
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Grandma and Grandpa Flamm
I was very fortunate to have family come visit during the last bit of busy season for Scott. It helped me make it through.
The first visit was from my Grandma and Grandpa Flamm. They are incredible. They drove from Rexburg to Washington D.C. and stopped who knows how many places in between. These two are animals (in the most respectful way). I only hope I have as much fire in me as they when I am their age.
It was so nice to have them visit. For my own personal remembrance I am going to list the highlights and tell about them. Sorry for the poor flow.
1) The picnic by the Potomac. I have told many people that airplanes land every 90 seconds at Reagan International Airport. Thank you grandpa for taking the time to figure that out. The picnic took me back to the day when I would go as a little girl with them.
2) Playing cards: I can think of nothing better to do with my grandparents. This time we learned Kings Corner. It is a great game! And as always they had to reteach my grandma rummy. I need to write that one down.
3) Taking them to King Kabob. My poor grandparents will never want us to pick the restaurant again. We took them to an Afgani Kabob restaurant. My grandma's words exactly "I ate it all but I don't want to go back." Thanks for being sports.
4) My grandpa playing domino Thomas the Train with Kayt. I have to say this is one thing I admire about both my grandparents, they have always taken the time to sit with us and just play. Even when it was not what they wanted to do. Thank you for doing that with Kayt. She still talks about it.
5) A project! A visit with my grandparents is not complete without a project. My grandpa helped me make some food storage shelves for my little closet. My grandpa is a construction genius. I just sat there as he measured and figured and cut and measured and figured and we ended up with this wonderful set of shelves that is PERFECT!
6) Continueing my efforts to crochet. My grandma is the Queen of the old arts, sewing, knitting, crochet, quilting, everything. I am the Queen of none. Crochet is the one art I thought I could maybe learn and be okay at. I am still working on baby booty number 2 to give to my sister. Thank you for your patience grandma.
After they left I said to Scott, you know I understand why I am the way I am. So many of my little quirks, watching movies while doing a craft project, always scheming some project to work on, caring about how often a plane lands, they are inherited, not my fault. I blame it all on my grandma and grandpa and I say with the most sincerity possible, THANK YOU!!!
The first visit was from my Grandma and Grandpa Flamm. They are incredible. They drove from Rexburg to Washington D.C. and stopped who knows how many places in between. These two are animals (in the most respectful way). I only hope I have as much fire in me as they when I am their age.
It was so nice to have them visit. For my own personal remembrance I am going to list the highlights and tell about them. Sorry for the poor flow.
1) The picnic by the Potomac. I have told many people that airplanes land every 90 seconds at Reagan International Airport. Thank you grandpa for taking the time to figure that out. The picnic took me back to the day when I would go as a little girl with them.
2) Playing cards: I can think of nothing better to do with my grandparents. This time we learned Kings Corner. It is a great game! And as always they had to reteach my grandma rummy. I need to write that one down.
3) Taking them to King Kabob. My poor grandparents will never want us to pick the restaurant again. We took them to an Afgani Kabob restaurant. My grandma's words exactly "I ate it all but I don't want to go back." Thanks for being sports.
4) My grandpa playing domino Thomas the Train with Kayt. I have to say this is one thing I admire about both my grandparents, they have always taken the time to sit with us and just play. Even when it was not what they wanted to do. Thank you for doing that with Kayt. She still talks about it.
5) A project! A visit with my grandparents is not complete without a project. My grandpa helped me make some food storage shelves for my little closet. My grandpa is a construction genius. I just sat there as he measured and figured and cut and measured and figured and we ended up with this wonderful set of shelves that is PERFECT!
6) Continueing my efforts to crochet. My grandma is the Queen of the old arts, sewing, knitting, crochet, quilting, everything. I am the Queen of none. Crochet is the one art I thought I could maybe learn and be okay at. I am still working on baby booty number 2 to give to my sister. Thank you for your patience grandma.
After they left I said to Scott, you know I understand why I am the way I am. So many of my little quirks, watching movies while doing a craft project, always scheming some project to work on, caring about how often a plane lands, they are inherited, not my fault. I blame it all on my grandma and grandpa and I say with the most sincerity possible, THANK YOU!!!
Thursday, March 25, 2010
If I could only rewind
So Scott is working late and me being the dutiful wife have decided to stay up and wait for him. I could be getting loads or productive stuff done, like work, cle3aring out the closet for food storage, etc. However, I have decided to lose myself in the blogosphere.
I love reading blogs. They are always so happy. Rarely do you come across one that is depressing. It is page after page of happiness. As I scroll through these blogs, the world seems to be a bit brighter. There is so much hope and happiness written on the pages of the internet diary.
As I read of all the little things that people want to share, and watch their children slowly grow up, I reflect on my own day with my beautiful family. It helps me to pause and realize it is all passing so quickly. I want to push rewind and watch it all over again. Experience the anxiousness but excitement of my first date with Scott, seeing him at the airport after two years of being apart, rushing into the temple 20 minutes late for my own wedding, the adventure of learning you are expecting my first baby and second, holding Kayt and Ella for the first time, watching them take their first steps, or enjoy their first bites of nasty rice cereal. Listening to their soft little voice sing their first song, color their first picture, smile their first smile. It all happens so fast and I can't help but feel like I missed it. I didn't cherish it all enough, take enough pictures, write enough thoughts. It is the opinion of a close friend of mine that when we get to the other side and all things are brought to our remembrance, it will not just be those things we wish we could have forgotten but the cherished memories we never wanted to forget. I certainly hope so.
I love reading blogs. They are always so happy. Rarely do you come across one that is depressing. It is page after page of happiness. As I scroll through these blogs, the world seems to be a bit brighter. There is so much hope and happiness written on the pages of the internet diary.
As I read of all the little things that people want to share, and watch their children slowly grow up, I reflect on my own day with my beautiful family. It helps me to pause and realize it is all passing so quickly. I want to push rewind and watch it all over again. Experience the anxiousness but excitement of my first date with Scott, seeing him at the airport after two years of being apart, rushing into the temple 20 minutes late for my own wedding, the adventure of learning you are expecting my first baby and second, holding Kayt and Ella for the first time, watching them take their first steps, or enjoy their first bites of nasty rice cereal. Listening to their soft little voice sing their first song, color their first picture, smile their first smile. It all happens so fast and I can't help but feel like I missed it. I didn't cherish it all enough, take enough pictures, write enough thoughts. It is the opinion of a close friend of mine that when we get to the other side and all things are brought to our remembrance, it will not just be those things we wish we could have forgotten but the cherished memories we never wanted to forget. I certainly hope so.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Ella Hugs
So the other day Ella came up to me and gave me a hug and started growling. I said, "Ella, what was that?" "A bear hug Mom!" Then came another hug, another growl, "A lion hug mommy!" Then came a nice soft hug, "a butterfly hug mommy!" Does life get any better than that?
Princess in the House
Kayt has always been a dress up girl. However, there are three items that have become permanent acessories. From sun up to sun down this is what you will find Kayt wearing. (I do make her take off the dress when she goes out.)
Ella gave her some make up for Christmas. This is Kayt's latest attempt and making herself beautiful. Not bad for a four year old!
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