I know it has been forever since I last put a post up. It really is amazing how fast the time goes by. I keep thinking, I will do it tomorrow and then all of the sudden it is 3 months later. It is a real reminder to me that the most important things need to be done in the moment because another tomorrow often goes by. I especially need that reminder when it comes to my two sweet girls. I also think, tomorrow won't be so busy and I will sit down and have a tea party with Kayt and play doll house with Ella. It still hasn't happened for awhile.
I am all alone in my little apartment right now, on the opposite of the continent from my babies and it has given me A LOT of quiet time to think. It doesn't take much to remind me of how much I love being a mom and having Kayt and Ella around me each day. Almost to fault sometimes. I am the queen of mom guilt. However, it is that guilt that makes me put my work away, ignore the messy house and unfolded laundry and take the little moments with them. Whenever I am feeling like I don't have time I am reminded of President Monson's message awhile ago about how quickly the time goes by when your little ones are little and just want to be with you.
How lucky I am to have two beautiful girls who love me and want to play with me....and a husband that makes it so I can stay home.
So here is my New Years Resolution...
Spend time with my girls more often. Time where I am really engaged with them, not just working around them and half listening to conversations. I think this time can spent more than just playing, it can be working, drawing, coloring, shopping, cooking etc. But just being with them all the way, not just half there while my mind is focused on other things.
Wish me luck on this one. I just feel like time is slipping away. I am sure you all feel it too. It also seems like counsel from this last conference was focused on worrying about the things that matter most. So here I go into 2011. My attempt at letting the unimportant fall out of my life thus making room for what really matters.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
List from the last 3 months
This is a personal list of what I need to catch up on and little summary of each event. Feel free to read.
Easter:
Kent and Sue and there family came for Easter and to see the city. Their site seeing days went so smoothly. I was very happy, seeing as it was the first trip I had actually planned for someone.
We took the girls to a local egg hunt at Fairfax high school. The weather was perfect. It was the first year the event was held and so the crowds were minimal. Thank goodness. I doubt next year will be so pleasant.
Easter day was wonderful. We listened to conference and held the annual egg roll contest. Always a joy.
May:
Sarah's Visit. Sarah came to visit me for week after she graduated high school. It was fantastic. A good friend of mine watched my girls while she and I went into the city all by ourselves. We were able to cover a lot of ground. By the time the day ended we had both realized we hadn't eaten anything all day.
A few exciting moments:
Taking our own personal tour of the Capitol. I have been a very disappointed by the tours you get of the US capitol now. Since, I used to give tours there, I know my way around pretty good. So...instead of exiting the building when the tour was over we just meandered through a few more areas of the capitol, pretending to be part of different groups along the way. I was never able to get us all the way down to the Halls of the Senate but we did see the old Supreme Court chambers and the Old Senate chambers. Sarah was freaking out but I think she appreciated a more in depth tour!
We also went up to Ocean City, MD. Our friends Cody and Skye live up there. We went to the beach, which was very fun and hung out that evening with them. It was so great to see them and also see the Atlantic Ocean.
Finally, the night before we were all packing up to go back to Idaho, Sarah and I went out to see all of the monuments. We left about 11 pm and didn't get back until 1:30. It was the perfect time to go and see them. There was nobody there, only us and the guards and maybe one or two others. We were really able to feel the spirit of the monument. I know that sounds funny, but if you are able to go when there isn't many people, there is really a reverence to them.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip!
Trip home to Idaho;
I believe, blogged about this one already
4th of July
We decided to brave the crowds and go and see the fireworks on the Mall. We sat right on the lawn of Lincoln Memorial. It was super fun. The firework display was awesome. Getting home was not so awesome but we made it.
Birthday
Scott went all out for my birthday this year. It is the only one I have ever had away from family so he felt h was justified in making it awesome. And... he did. I had all of my favorite food and a chocolate ice cream cake from Cold Stone to top it all off. We had our friends over that night for some great Mediterranean food from our favorite spot. He took most of the day off to just hang out with me and girls. It was just a fantastic day. I don't know that I have ever been so spoiled.
My mom comes to town
My mom came out to visit in August as well. I was involved in Girls Camp so she came to watch my girls for me. She came out a little early so we could spend some time before I left. It was so fun to have her here. We went downtown one day and say the Natural History museum and the art gallery and hung out around our favorite fountain in D.C. We also went to a farmer's market at the department of agriculture building. It was just so fun to have her here, all to ourselves. My mom is my best friend and it had been awhile since we were able to just hang out. The time of her visit was also a tender mercy. She was able to be here to help us as we worked through some health troubles that came up during girls camp as well.
Grandpa Smith's Passing
Scott's Grandpa Smith passed away in September after a long battle with Cancer. Scott's parents were kind enough to fly us all home for the funeral. It was so nice to be back on the farm and with the family. There was so much love in Grandma and Grandpa's little front room as everyone gathered there to just talk and be together. Everyone told different funny stories about grandpa and family memories they all had. Scott and Brad saddled up the horse and all the little kids went for a ride. The only thing missing physically was grandpa, but we all knew he was there.
I haven't had anybody close to me die since I was pretty young (about 13 or 14). I had a really hard time with the idea of the viewing at first. But to see him looking so at peace was comforting. The experience really helped my testimony grow. Life isn't over once we die. And we will see our loved ones again.
Freedom's Run Half Marathon
Bucket List Trip to Maine
Scott and I decided to bite the bullet and take our first trip together. Scott planned a week long trip for us to Maine. I have a list of all the things I want to do before I die. (the list keeps growing) One thing on that list was to eat a lobster in Maine. We did that much more.
Day 1:
Drove to Boston. It is a super cool city. We stayed in a hotel right near where the Boston Massacre happened and the freedom trail. So we went and saw Paul Revers's house, the church he lit the lanterns in, the pub they planned part of the revolution in and all of the other awesome old stuff the city has.
We also did some temple work in the Boston temple. Boston is a very cool city and i hope we can go back there some time.
Day 2 and 3
We drove to Maine. We decided to take this trip in fall so we could see all the fall colors. They did not disappoint. It was beautiful. The first two days we stayed in a cottage on the Southwest Harbor in Acadia National Park. We woke up to a view of the harbor and all of the lobster boats and some ships leaving for the day. It was so picturesque. Words can't describe. I will post pictures eventually. Our cottage appropriately names Eagle Watch cottage provided us with a wonderful view of an eagle in the tree right outside our window.
We went on a hike that gave us incredible views of the where the land meets the ocean. It just runs right into it. The hike ended up take a little longer than we planned because we lost our keys to the car along the way. However, after hiking the trail three times we just happened to run in to some other hikers that had found them and told us where to go and pick them up. That was divine intervention for sure.
We saw a super cool light house and, lobster boats and natural sea wall. It was an incredible place.
Day 4:
We went to Bar Harbor. We got up super early so we be the first on the continent to see the sunrise. It was incredible. Again, words can't describe. It was freezing cold but the moment was worth it.
We then went down into the town of Bar Harbour. It is an old town that reminded me a lot of Jackson Hole, WY. Except instead of mountains they have ocean. There is big sand bar that you can walk across when the tide goes out. We spent some time there collecting shells for the girls. The only bumber part of the trip was that most sailing tours had been shut down for the season. We'll take on next time we go.
It was here that the official bucket list event was fulfilled. We had a Lobster in Maine and Stewman's. It was a great experience. It is funny, they give you an instruction card with your lobster so you know how to eat it correctly. It is a pretty slick process and oh so good!
Day 5:
We traveled to the eastern most part of the United States, Eastport, MA. Saying it is the end of world would be appropriate. There is nothing there. Our accomadations were super cool. We stayed in a very nice bed and breakfast with a kitchen I will covet for the rest of my life. The town itself was pretty run down. There were a few shops and art galleries and other than that is was all but abandoned. It had its hayday and then everybody left. There were a lot of lobster boats still there and a few restaurants and a Mustard factory. Beyond that we are not sure what people do for a living there.
To reach the town you drive across a strip of land as wide as two cars. During high tide, this drive was little intimidating. It was fun to mingle with the locals at Ray's Mustard and here the accents. It really was a different world up there.
We went to Quaddy Head lighthouse during a Nor Easter storm. That was one of coolest parts of the trip in our opinion. The wind and rain were insane, the ocean was going crazy. It was super cool, the wind was so strong it literally almost blew you down. We got soaked in a matter of seconds but to watch the ocean go crazy like that was awesome. It was so powerful.
Day 6:
We traveled back to Boston and spend one last night there. We again, went out and explored around the town and enjoyed the pulse of the city.
Day 7:
We traveled back to Fairfax.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip. Scott is the ultimate trip planner. It is our first of many to come. We are such compatible travelers. We both want the same things out of vacation and we like to do the off the beaten path sort of things. I can't wait until the next one!
Scott's Family visits:
We came home from Maine with a house full of Scott's family. Hayley had come out to watch the girls for us and his parents arrived the day before we got home. It was great to spend the week with them. We took them to some of our favorite places downtown, and Harper's Ferry and Antietam. During this time we also got to talk with them about moving back to Rexburg. By the end of the trip, the decision to move home had been made. So much family stuff going on was the last little push we needed to go home. We also did some wedding planning while they were here which was super fun to be part of.
Halloween:
Halloween was great his year. Pretty low key. Kayt decided she wanted to be Cleopatra, a look she pulled off very well and Ella wanted to be a lady bug, a look she pulled off well. For a week Ella wore here costume, in variations (sometime with a witch skirt, sometimes without) but the lady bug was a constant. She loved it. It was so cute to see here in it. And of course Kayt was very regal in Cleopatra gown. She helped me make her the perfect crown for the costume and would talk about how she wanted to look everyday.
We had a preschool Halloween party at our house which went very well and the the ward Trunk or Treat. Scott and I went as Toucan Sam and Fruit Loops this year. It was a fun time for all of us.
Thanksgiving:
We hosted Thanksgiving again. It was a great time. We really enjoy hosting parties. This year we even invested in stuff to make out table look pretty. We realized we did not have enough silverware to feed all of the guests we had invited. So...we decided to buy some and some chargers and some glasses. Lets just say the table looked awesome. I can't wait for the next event we get to host!
Hayley's Wedding:
The next big event was Hayley and Justin's wedding. We again, were so glad we could be there. They are such a good looking couple and from what we here very great together. We can't wait to get to know Justin better. They were both so happy and they just glowed. The reception was incredibly beautiful with such a good fun feeling. The little girls were adorable in there little white dresses and were so excited to get all dressed up for the wedding. Even Ella acted a little more reserved in here pretty dress.
It was so fun to be part of the madness leading up to such an important day. And as always, a real treat to be in a sealing ceremony at the temple. It brings back so many memories! Go Hayley and Justin!!! We love you both.
Erickson's Come for Christmas
My family followed us back out to Virginia for Christmas. It was so great to have them here. Our place is small but we all did just great. We did spend much time in the house, which made it easier. My parents were kind enough to include us in a trip to New York the first two days of there stay. We left the girls with a friend, which was good because it was FREEZING!!!
New York at Christmas lived up to its hype. It was so fun to see all the things your see on movies. Skating at Rockefeller Center, Times Square, Central Park, Grand Central Station, Battery Park, Wall Street, Broadway. We tried to squeeze it all in. To do Scott and I figured out the Subway system. New York has it figured out. We were able to get anywhere super quick!
The first night we were there we walked out into Time Square and we all just froze. Movies don't do it justice. The lights and huge signs and energy there is crazy. And...the people watching. It doesn't get much better.
We ate a great Brazilian restaurant. Gabbi, a foreign exchange student from Brazil. Was so excited. It was so fun to watch her read the menu and giggle with delight. I can see why she misses her native cuisine. The food was excellent.
We capped the trip off seeing Wicked! It was fantastic. I love watching musicals. There is so much talent wrapped up into one incredible package.
We then traveled back to Virginia for Christmas. It was so fun this year. Kayt and Ella were at a perfect age. So much magic involved. They both swore they head Santa Clause and couldn't believe he brought just what they wanted. Scott and I and Sarah stayed up late playing elf as we finished off our homemade gifts for the girls and watched It's a Wonderful Life. We got to talk to Jake and Jeff on Christmas as well. Jake's mission president even let him Skype. He looked so good. It all made us miss him.
We also went to a traditional Swedish Yuleborg at our friends the Messenger's. It was an experience we all enjoyed.
Sunday we went to church and were surprised to see Elder Oaks sitting on the stand. That was definitely a highlight of the holiday season. He and his wife had come to spend Christmas with his daughter Jenny and her family. He reminded us of the three groups that were told of Christ's birth, The Humble, The Wise and The Heavenly.
We spent the last two days exploring the city and the area. It was such a great time having them here with us.
So.....in between all of this Scott and I have tried to make memories with Kayt and Ella. We have tried to carve out family time and enjoy each moment we have had left out here. There is so much here that we love we have tried to soak as much as we can in.
Again, thanks for the personal privilege of catching up on this year.
Easter:
Kent and Sue and there family came for Easter and to see the city. Their site seeing days went so smoothly. I was very happy, seeing as it was the first trip I had actually planned for someone.
We took the girls to a local egg hunt at Fairfax high school. The weather was perfect. It was the first year the event was held and so the crowds were minimal. Thank goodness. I doubt next year will be so pleasant.
Easter day was wonderful. We listened to conference and held the annual egg roll contest. Always a joy.
May:
Sarah's Visit. Sarah came to visit me for week after she graduated high school. It was fantastic. A good friend of mine watched my girls while she and I went into the city all by ourselves. We were able to cover a lot of ground. By the time the day ended we had both realized we hadn't eaten anything all day.
A few exciting moments:
Taking our own personal tour of the Capitol. I have been a very disappointed by the tours you get of the US capitol now. Since, I used to give tours there, I know my way around pretty good. So...instead of exiting the building when the tour was over we just meandered through a few more areas of the capitol, pretending to be part of different groups along the way. I was never able to get us all the way down to the Halls of the Senate but we did see the old Supreme Court chambers and the Old Senate chambers. Sarah was freaking out but I think she appreciated a more in depth tour!
We also went up to Ocean City, MD. Our friends Cody and Skye live up there. We went to the beach, which was very fun and hung out that evening with them. It was so great to see them and also see the Atlantic Ocean.
Finally, the night before we were all packing up to go back to Idaho, Sarah and I went out to see all of the monuments. We left about 11 pm and didn't get back until 1:30. It was the perfect time to go and see them. There was nobody there, only us and the guards and maybe one or two others. We were really able to feel the spirit of the monument. I know that sounds funny, but if you are able to go when there isn't many people, there is really a reverence to them.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip!
Trip home to Idaho;
I believe, blogged about this one already
4th of July
We decided to brave the crowds and go and see the fireworks on the Mall. We sat right on the lawn of Lincoln Memorial. It was super fun. The firework display was awesome. Getting home was not so awesome but we made it.
Birthday
Scott went all out for my birthday this year. It is the only one I have ever had away from family so he felt h was justified in making it awesome. And... he did. I had all of my favorite food and a chocolate ice cream cake from Cold Stone to top it all off. We had our friends over that night for some great Mediterranean food from our favorite spot. He took most of the day off to just hang out with me and girls. It was just a fantastic day. I don't know that I have ever been so spoiled.
My mom comes to town
My mom came out to visit in August as well. I was involved in Girls Camp so she came to watch my girls for me. She came out a little early so we could spend some time before I left. It was so fun to have her here. We went downtown one day and say the Natural History museum and the art gallery and hung out around our favorite fountain in D.C. We also went to a farmer's market at the department of agriculture building. It was just so fun to have her here, all to ourselves. My mom is my best friend and it had been awhile since we were able to just hang out. The time of her visit was also a tender mercy. She was able to be here to help us as we worked through some health troubles that came up during girls camp as well.
Grandpa Smith's Passing
Scott's Grandpa Smith passed away in September after a long battle with Cancer. Scott's parents were kind enough to fly us all home for the funeral. It was so nice to be back on the farm and with the family. There was so much love in Grandma and Grandpa's little front room as everyone gathered there to just talk and be together. Everyone told different funny stories about grandpa and family memories they all had. Scott and Brad saddled up the horse and all the little kids went for a ride. The only thing missing physically was grandpa, but we all knew he was there.
I haven't had anybody close to me die since I was pretty young (about 13 or 14). I had a really hard time with the idea of the viewing at first. But to see him looking so at peace was comforting. The experience really helped my testimony grow. Life isn't over once we die. And we will see our loved ones again.
Freedom's Run Half Marathon
Bucket List Trip to Maine
Scott and I decided to bite the bullet and take our first trip together. Scott planned a week long trip for us to Maine. I have a list of all the things I want to do before I die. (the list keeps growing) One thing on that list was to eat a lobster in Maine. We did that much more.
Day 1:
Drove to Boston. It is a super cool city. We stayed in a hotel right near where the Boston Massacre happened and the freedom trail. So we went and saw Paul Revers's house, the church he lit the lanterns in, the pub they planned part of the revolution in and all of the other awesome old stuff the city has.
We also did some temple work in the Boston temple. Boston is a very cool city and i hope we can go back there some time.
Day 2 and 3
We drove to Maine. We decided to take this trip in fall so we could see all the fall colors. They did not disappoint. It was beautiful. The first two days we stayed in a cottage on the Southwest Harbor in Acadia National Park. We woke up to a view of the harbor and all of the lobster boats and some ships leaving for the day. It was so picturesque. Words can't describe. I will post pictures eventually. Our cottage appropriately names Eagle Watch cottage provided us with a wonderful view of an eagle in the tree right outside our window.
We went on a hike that gave us incredible views of the where the land meets the ocean. It just runs right into it. The hike ended up take a little longer than we planned because we lost our keys to the car along the way. However, after hiking the trail three times we just happened to run in to some other hikers that had found them and told us where to go and pick them up. That was divine intervention for sure.
We saw a super cool light house and, lobster boats and natural sea wall. It was an incredible place.
Day 4:
We went to Bar Harbor. We got up super early so we be the first on the continent to see the sunrise. It was incredible. Again, words can't describe. It was freezing cold but the moment was worth it.
We then went down into the town of Bar Harbour. It is an old town that reminded me a lot of Jackson Hole, WY. Except instead of mountains they have ocean. There is big sand bar that you can walk across when the tide goes out. We spent some time there collecting shells for the girls. The only bumber part of the trip was that most sailing tours had been shut down for the season. We'll take on next time we go.
It was here that the official bucket list event was fulfilled. We had a Lobster in Maine and Stewman's. It was a great experience. It is funny, they give you an instruction card with your lobster so you know how to eat it correctly. It is a pretty slick process and oh so good!
Day 5:
We traveled to the eastern most part of the United States, Eastport, MA. Saying it is the end of world would be appropriate. There is nothing there. Our accomadations were super cool. We stayed in a very nice bed and breakfast with a kitchen I will covet for the rest of my life. The town itself was pretty run down. There were a few shops and art galleries and other than that is was all but abandoned. It had its hayday and then everybody left. There were a lot of lobster boats still there and a few restaurants and a Mustard factory. Beyond that we are not sure what people do for a living there.
To reach the town you drive across a strip of land as wide as two cars. During high tide, this drive was little intimidating. It was fun to mingle with the locals at Ray's Mustard and here the accents. It really was a different world up there.
We went to Quaddy Head lighthouse during a Nor Easter storm. That was one of coolest parts of the trip in our opinion. The wind and rain were insane, the ocean was going crazy. It was super cool, the wind was so strong it literally almost blew you down. We got soaked in a matter of seconds but to watch the ocean go crazy like that was awesome. It was so powerful.
Day 6:
We traveled back to Boston and spend one last night there. We again, went out and explored around the town and enjoyed the pulse of the city.
Day 7:
We traveled back to Fairfax.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip. Scott is the ultimate trip planner. It is our first of many to come. We are such compatible travelers. We both want the same things out of vacation and we like to do the off the beaten path sort of things. I can't wait until the next one!
Scott's Family visits:
We came home from Maine with a house full of Scott's family. Hayley had come out to watch the girls for us and his parents arrived the day before we got home. It was great to spend the week with them. We took them to some of our favorite places downtown, and Harper's Ferry and Antietam. During this time we also got to talk with them about moving back to Rexburg. By the end of the trip, the decision to move home had been made. So much family stuff going on was the last little push we needed to go home. We also did some wedding planning while they were here which was super fun to be part of.
Halloween:
Halloween was great his year. Pretty low key. Kayt decided she wanted to be Cleopatra, a look she pulled off very well and Ella wanted to be a lady bug, a look she pulled off well. For a week Ella wore here costume, in variations (sometime with a witch skirt, sometimes without) but the lady bug was a constant. She loved it. It was so cute to see here in it. And of course Kayt was very regal in Cleopatra gown. She helped me make her the perfect crown for the costume and would talk about how she wanted to look everyday.
We had a preschool Halloween party at our house which went very well and the the ward Trunk or Treat. Scott and I went as Toucan Sam and Fruit Loops this year. It was a fun time for all of us.
Thanksgiving:
We hosted Thanksgiving again. It was a great time. We really enjoy hosting parties. This year we even invested in stuff to make out table look pretty. We realized we did not have enough silverware to feed all of the guests we had invited. So...we decided to buy some and some chargers and some glasses. Lets just say the table looked awesome. I can't wait for the next event we get to host!
Hayley's Wedding:
The next big event was Hayley and Justin's wedding. We again, were so glad we could be there. They are such a good looking couple and from what we here very great together. We can't wait to get to know Justin better. They were both so happy and they just glowed. The reception was incredibly beautiful with such a good fun feeling. The little girls were adorable in there little white dresses and were so excited to get all dressed up for the wedding. Even Ella acted a little more reserved in here pretty dress.
It was so fun to be part of the madness leading up to such an important day. And as always, a real treat to be in a sealing ceremony at the temple. It brings back so many memories! Go Hayley and Justin!!! We love you both.
Erickson's Come for Christmas
My family followed us back out to Virginia for Christmas. It was so great to have them here. Our place is small but we all did just great. We did spend much time in the house, which made it easier. My parents were kind enough to include us in a trip to New York the first two days of there stay. We left the girls with a friend, which was good because it was FREEZING!!!
New York at Christmas lived up to its hype. It was so fun to see all the things your see on movies. Skating at Rockefeller Center, Times Square, Central Park, Grand Central Station, Battery Park, Wall Street, Broadway. We tried to squeeze it all in. To do Scott and I figured out the Subway system. New York has it figured out. We were able to get anywhere super quick!
The first night we were there we walked out into Time Square and we all just froze. Movies don't do it justice. The lights and huge signs and energy there is crazy. And...the people watching. It doesn't get much better.
We ate a great Brazilian restaurant. Gabbi, a foreign exchange student from Brazil. Was so excited. It was so fun to watch her read the menu and giggle with delight. I can see why she misses her native cuisine. The food was excellent.
We capped the trip off seeing Wicked! It was fantastic. I love watching musicals. There is so much talent wrapped up into one incredible package.
We then traveled back to Virginia for Christmas. It was so fun this year. Kayt and Ella were at a perfect age. So much magic involved. They both swore they head Santa Clause and couldn't believe he brought just what they wanted. Scott and I and Sarah stayed up late playing elf as we finished off our homemade gifts for the girls and watched It's a Wonderful Life. We got to talk to Jake and Jeff on Christmas as well. Jake's mission president even let him Skype. He looked so good. It all made us miss him.
We also went to a traditional Swedish Yuleborg at our friends the Messenger's. It was an experience we all enjoyed.
Sunday we went to church and were surprised to see Elder Oaks sitting on the stand. That was definitely a highlight of the holiday season. He and his wife had come to spend Christmas with his daughter Jenny and her family. He reminded us of the three groups that were told of Christ's birth, The Humble, The Wise and The Heavenly.
We spent the last two days exploring the city and the area. It was such a great time having them here with us.
So.....in between all of this Scott and I have tried to make memories with Kayt and Ella. We have tried to carve out family time and enjoy each moment we have had left out here. There is so much here that we love we have tried to soak as much as we can in.
Again, thanks for the personal privilege of catching up on this year.
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